Don't blame me, it's simple arithmathic...

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well if finished my research and have come to a conclusion about my oceans 11 quote:.
the one that i wrote up a few posts ago where george clooney asks if julia roberts new husband makes her laugh? and she said he didnt but at least he didnt make her cry...

i realized asking a lot of girls i know personally...(really young girls... at least no one over 20) they're going to gravitate towards choosing a guy who can make them laugh. it's a sign of maturity in a way that they understand that happiness and pain goes hand in hand... without one you can't have another... and what kind of love would exist without both love and pain...


but i cant help to think that theres girls out there who would want the second type of guy...
i haven't asked these girls the question yet... or will i get to so i will just inference on the types of girls that will pick the guy that won't make them cry over the other...

it takes a lot of pain in a relationship for a girl to finally realize that the small happiness that it brings is not worth it... a great amount of pain. Face it guys are assholes... and some of them really don't know how to treat a girl...

it's a real shame if a girl has gone through enough experiences to pick the latter guy...
maybe it's a lot of games that guys play... and maybe the girl will never be able to trust again fully...


the research concludes that any good relationship has its good sides w/ laughter and tears... it would be optimal to find more laughter in a relationship than tears, but i realize that it's rare as no one is perfect in this world... and for the girls that have been hurt in the past... i realize that their hearts will need a lot of mending before they can offer it up again to a guy who would both make them laugh... and cry... tears of joy